Borderline online dating
Therefore, it’s important to reject the mainstream programming you receive from society. Men who understand women know to let a woman have this power. They fail all the important tests and then wonder why she left! You need the right mentality to pass these tests and give her healthy relationship vibes. Read it and notice the many lessons within: === “Hello Rick! I have been in a relationship with a man for over a year now. Most guys (and girls) have trouble dealing with Borderlines in their relationships.
I highly suggest you pick up the free “BPD Cheat Sheet” using the link below. This is how she categorizes you from “just another typical man” to “I’ve never met anyone like him! I finally have found someone with the maturity to understand my mental disorder (which I am still working on overcoming). We give each other over and over again or he will leave me. The sooner you work on your attachment disorder, the sooner you’ll be well on your way to true love. Thanks to the crazy society we live in, this is a monumental task. It took a few months of seeing this woman casually for her to open up to me emotionally. Most guys don’t understand this and they screw things up. Which is why I created the Better BPD Relationships course.
According to a quick Google search, Borderline Personality Disorder is “characterized by dramatic, overly emotional or unpredictable thinking or behavior.” I have dated dozens and dozens of women over the years.
I can confidently say that you’ll find these characteristics in most women, lol.
But real, actual love and compatibility is impossible without strong, independent mindsets. This is why the BPD label doesn’t matter at the end of the day. Understanding this fact is all you need to be successful. When she pulls away, she wants to see how you’ll react. But, this week she doesn’t have those same feelings for whatever reason.
My girlfriend is not a burden, her BPD is.” Paddy’s story isn’t a fairytale romance.
For most, it may hold little that feels inspirational.
If you’re unaware of BPD, you’ll assume you have a “crazy” girlfriend. You’ll always be seeking a fantasy that never comes to fruition. What he currently receives from his partner isn’t enough. To understand women is to understand how they communicate on an emotional level. This is what a centered man with great mindsets brings to the table. It is POSSIBLE that you are very judgmental and not understanding what the disorder is. I want you to make it through the minefield unscathed.
It isn’t until you do your research that you learn about BPD. Due to past experiences with men, women (especially borderlines) will pull away. You may be clueless on how you can help make the relationship work. You’ll soon learn why it doesn’t really matter if your girl has BPD or not.