Dating for 5 years and no engagement
I don't have that drive to keep trying to fix it anymore. " But I let him talk me into believing it will be different.
My dad is older and if he couldn't walk me down the aisle I would HATE my SO. Right now, marriage is the pink elephant in the room. How do u know it's over and how do you 'uncouple' with someone that you've been with since you were a kid?I have been dating my guy for 10 1/2 years but we still are not married.Do you think I am wasting my time on this relationship ? I mean we sometimes talk about getting married eventually but still no ring or plans....I was also in a 10.5 year relationship that ended before Christmas. Unfortunately, I have the children ( not by him) who have been asking, " when are we going to tie the knot?My ex talked and talked and planned a future and kids and a wedding. They can strong you along by talking about it but if he wanted it he would do it. He told me to buy a wedding dress our eight year of dating. I was the fool because I believed that something was going to happen... He ask me to all that, but he never actually proposed. ," My kids were 3 and 8 years old when we started dating. I was very transparent with him about just dating for some many years.