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However, most kinky people have to get out to events. There are also some big kink events that are great if you can afford to travel.
Some I can recommend are those run by Dark Odyssey and Frolicon.
Don't just go "hey i want this and that, and you are sub, so you have to give it to me. Your search results with collarspace are limited to say the least, and there are plenty of scammers there.
I am uninterested in going to Fetlife munch's because of some social anxiety, but that seems the only way to maybe meet someone. There are not huge numbers of people and it is a long process to find the right people.
And all of them are from hot young women, by their photo, looking for a slave to worshi8p them, although they live thousands of miles from you, are young enough to be your daughter, and won't reply to your messages, since they do not really exist. Church of Chains uses the same interface, but I do not know if they are at all related. It is international, mainly Dom Male and sub females but there are the opposite orientations too. So you have work cut out for you if you expect to be noticed at all.
But if you are a dominant male looking for more than playing in the semi-public scene with women who are already attached but allowed to "play," you are also facing extreme odds.
The biggest fetish/BDSM community, fetlife, isn't a dating site and there is not a search engine designed to find matches. I'm young, fit, everything good, but I don't know where to advertise myself where my type of women will see me.
If you are a dominant the odds are less daunting, though still against you.
Go to events to learn techniques and develop a reputation in the community as a safe player and a decent guy.
Starting with pros can gain you credibility; most dommes don't want to waste time on total newbies.
But a male submissive has to network relentlessly to get free play and/or find a relationship. To be completely honest, dommes are spoled and a male submissive with little money has little chance with them.