Practice dating skills
Try a local sporting event or street festival: "It takes some of the pressure off when you meet someone in a place where she's doing something fun and being herself," Sherman says.
TAKE ACTION Scan the crowd and select multiple potential candidates.
Enlist the help of your closest male friend who's in a committed relationship, Schwartz says.
Ask him to play detective, observing your methods and pointing out any patterns with the women you date.
"Somebody who's incapable of delivering phony lines can be seen as incredibly sweet and attractive," Schwartz says."Research shows that men are more likely than women to see sexual interest that's not there," says Glenn Geher, Ph.D., an evolutionary psychologist at the State University of New York at New Paltz.For an even more concrete compatibility gauge, compare your vocabularies.A study published last year in suggests that people who have similar language styles are more likely to become romantically interested in each other and to stay together if they pair up.